Re: Most urgent features, IMHO
I have some ideas to solve the servers problem, I need to discuss it with Hampa though since it is his game (and I don't know all the details)!
I think making it more obvious that multiplayer exists is more important than renaming it. Access through an escape menu is not the most obvious, but I can't see another way personally. Also, I love single player, and play it MUCH more than mutliplayer.
I run LAN parties all the time, and the one thing I always have is a linux server! It just performs that much better than I have ever seen a windows server manage. (not just Toribash, for everything!) All you need to set up a linux machine is something like Ubuntu, which can even run straight from the CD. Anyway, how to set up a linux machine is off-topic.