today afternoon when i opened toribash resolution was wrong, music was playing...in short, all my setup was wrong like somebody entered game when i wasnt there and messed with my setup (and nobody did that)
and also ingame when i click on joint it only changes between contract and expand. there is no relax or hold, only contract and expand.
this looks like some wierd bug to me

Just delete toribash and re-install it.
That should fix it.

To fix the joint problem, go to the game menu screen > setup > options > advanced > next to "Mouse Buttons", in that box put 1

As for the resolution messing up, it might just be a problem that possibly could have occurred when you downloaded the game. You could try reinstalling it, but if it only happened once I don't see any reason to reinstall so long as it doesn't keep happening.

You can set the resolution in the Options menu by clicking Advanced in the bottom left and then changing the resolution:

Maybe you could Delete Defualt.cfg and then re-do your settings

one more thing, i cant grab people's body ingame, i can just grab their palms. and appearantly they cant grab me too, this is some heavy bug.

I would suggest reinstalling it then. That sounds like a download error.