I thought I was pansexual until I realized my attraction to men is much more superficial, erotic, and short-lived than my attraction to women, which is more long lasting and more about appreciating their full being (haven't had any experience with anything else) . Life is such that you discover things about yourself by exploring and explaining, so embrace it as that. It's not really very important what I tell you.
Consider if it's important to you to define yourself by such a term. Usually a word has very little to do with how you are as a person, so don't let the term define you. If you use the word to explain to others how you are as a person it has a very different purpose. That distinction is important.
Good luck.
Consider if it's important to you to define yourself by such a term. Usually a word has very little to do with how you are as a person, so don't let the term define you. If you use the word to explain to others how you are as a person it has a very different purpose. That distinction is important.
Good luck.
Last edited by Lazors; Jun 19, 2017 at 04:29 PM.
Brendan (he who passeth judgement on the frequent changing of signatures): I don't do hentai anymore
Greetings, i have a piss coloured name and i probably also qualify as pansexual. My guess is that most people don't really care, because as it is with such things, they're only really relevant in bed. That said, i applaud your coming out, even if it's done anonymously, because this kind of thing needs to be less taboo. Sadly, there's still enough discrimination against LGBTQ+ (jeez that acronym is getting long) to warrant caution, especially if you're not in a safe environment. I long for the day where people can just be mildly surprised or prompted to sip from their Cup of Apathy by such revelations, because it really doesn't define you as a person any more than whether you like coffee, tea or both (which apparently also is a cause of strife between certain people). I mean hey, if you like it all, that just means a larger pool to pick from. :v
Also, seconding the notion of considering professional help for the abuse and suicidal thoughts. I'm sure you've already heard a lot about it, so i won't preach to the choir, but... Stay safe, okay?
Also, seconding the notion of considering professional help for the abuse and suicidal thoughts. I'm sure you've already heard a lot about it, so i won't preach to the choir, but... Stay safe, okay?
Last edited by Shook; Jun 20, 2017 at 03:06 AM.
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various places to find me lol
various places to find me lol
Originally Posted by 2017Forum
pansexual. (pan·sex·u·al
panˈsekSH(əw)əl/
adjective
1.not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity.
pansexual sounds like a fancy pants way of saying you're open minded to me... I get that maybe you want to confide in the internet, but I don't see what the discussion here is
also, on the topic of sexuality; I wouldn't go slapping labels on yourself willy nilly, lest you confine yourself to one label or another... just do what (or who) you want and be done with it I say, you don't need to explain yourself.
