ok ok dipper,this is how i would do it, you have to make a way for your dad to feel sorry for you, im not sure how you will do it, but thats my solution, once he feels sorry, he should start to worry, and he should start showing some respect, and take it a bit easier, if not, IMA COME DOWN TO MARYBINONG OR SOMETHIN' LIKE THAT AND WHOOP YO' DAD'S ASS!!, he'll probably whoop my ass but, wont hurt to try :3