people playing: 32, servers online: 11, games played: 142,000,000 Top Player: Money

  Toribash Community » General » Discussion
Register FAQ General Rules Community
Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old Jul 3, 2018   #11
Nerfpls
untitled unmastered
 
cactus jack Belt
Join Date: Feb 2014
Posts: 2,387
Clan: Obey



i blame tyzi for telling people to grow thicker skin in the past in reports. it was not cool for him to say that stuff
Nerfpls is offline   Reply With Quote
Old Jul 3, 2018   #12
@JoboMan
roflmao
 
10th Dan Black Belt
Join Date: Feb 2010
Posts: 5,677
Clan: Obey



Originally Posted by Nerfpls View Post
i blame tyzi for telling people to grow thicker skin in the past in reports. it was not cool for him to say that stuff


Good point a lot of staff are also just as "toxic" as normal players, and can be quite ruthless on people but I mean its all part of it
I apologise for this post.
JoboMan is offline   Reply With Quote
Old Jul 3, 2018   #13
Scourge
 
Angeles Belt
Join Date: Dec 2012
Posts: 225



I agree that sometimes staff promote this kind of mentality, I don't know if they really feel that the comments are entirely acceptable themselves, or if they believe them to be an unavoidable reality that can only be tolerated. Personally I think that plenty can be done about this issue, but only if we insist so, if we just accept it as the nature of the community then nothing will change. We need to actively discourage this kind of thing if we want to see anything happen.
Scourge is offline   Reply With Quote
Old Jul 3, 2018   #14
@JoboMan
roflmao
 
10th Dan Black Belt
Join Date: Feb 2010
Posts: 5,677
Clan: Obey



I mean personally I dont really care its just a game and a random community and I enjoy giving my friends shit, u shouldn't let someone that you dont know offend you but as I said I do notice that some people say some shockers and take it quite far, mostly racism.
I apologise for this post.
JoboMan is offline   Reply With Quote
Old Jul 3, 2018   #15
DruggedPanda
 
6th Dan Black Belt
Join Date: Jan 2011
Posts: 16,591



Personally, there is an acceptance, joke-able level of insults among friends and people you normally hang out with or talk to. Just a little banter.

There is a point where it goes too far though, and I personally don't think you should trash talk people you aren't close with or know. However, the internet allows us to talk a lot of shit to unknown people without the real consequences.
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
[SmallBowl] [fallu] [Moop] [Parrot] [SkulFuk] [Icky] [Sassy]
[Ex-MSquad]
Need help with any market related questions? Feel free to PM ME. <Powas> I've got a degree in 1001 techniques of masturbation
DruggedPanda is offline   Reply With Quote
Old Jul 3, 2018   #16
notEle
Junior Member
 
White Belt
Join Date: Jun 2018



The internet is not a place conducive to empathy Scourge. As DP said, there are no IRL consequences for flaming people. Empathy is a learned behaviour and, on average, men really don't learn it until later in life. This is a video-game forum filled with predominately young men. You can see where I'm going with this. You're never gonna win the battle of trying to get people to be nice in gaming forums.

Knowing that, your only option (and I know you don't like this) is to change how you respond to it. You're ultimately in control of your own emotions. You can choose to feel shitty, or you can choose to brush it off and carry on.

On the rare occasion I play the game, and on the rarer occasion I'm confronted with a flamer, I engage them in dialogue. I talk with them, ask them about their day, ask them why they're sad, that sort of thing. It quickly turns the situation around. It shows them you don't give a shit about their flaming and if you do it right, you can make them look stupid in front of everyone else (ORRR, even better, they start treating you with sum hespect).

It all comes down to how you respond.

Last edited by notEle; Jul 3, 2018 at 09:34 AM..
notEle is offline   Reply With Quote
Old Jul 3, 2018   #17
Rouxster
Thrower
 
10th Dan Black Belt
Join Date: May 2014
Posts: 1,805
Clan: Rain



Kids will be kids man, welcome to the internet. Remember, we've all acted immature on here at some point. You won't be able to change the way other people act; only person you control is yourself. You shouldn't even take the stupid shit people say here seriously. They'll face no real life consequences, and they don't care about your feelings. Sometimes they don't even intend to offend someone yet they still do. There's not much you yourself can do about it except worry about the way you're treating others.

Just worry bout yourself
[TA] Leader
~Do Real Moves~
Rouxster is offline   Reply With Quote
Old Jul 9, 2018   #18
Mafia
Member
 
10th Dan Black Belt
Join Date: Sep 2014
Posts: 445
Clan: WAPOW



The most offending insult is one that is true.
on the internet, nobody knows anything about you as long as you don't tell them.
Besides, no community is home.
it's about the friends you make in the community that feel like family.
Of all the money that ever I had, I’ve spent it in good company
And all the harm that ever I done, Alas it was to none but me
But all the sweethearts that ever I loved
They have left long so now they rot
But since it falls unto my lot
That I should live and you should not
Mafia is offline   Reply With Quote
Old Sep 3, 2018   #19
TalyorG
Member
 
7th Dan Black Belt
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 100
Clan: Tank



I think Sourge is totaly true, By the way we have here a Little comunoty of people who insult everyone, in groups, harrass people, try to hack accounts, admins accounts too and never have problems and I don't speak about the ddos... the people do that just for win, this game will die by this own players...
TalyorG is offline   Reply With Quote
Old Sep 3, 2018   #20
>Smaguris
ub3r
 
Master Belt
Join Date: Jan 2014
Posts: 2,732
Clan: Adventure



Originally Posted by TalyorG View Post
I think Sourge is totaly true, By the way we have here a Little comunoty of people who insult everyone, in groups, harrass people, try to hack accounts, admins accounts too and never have problems and I don't speak about the ddos... the people do that just for win, this game will die by this own players...

That's every gaming community ever if you just focus on the bad and ignore all the good friendships and community giveaways/donations.
Smaguris is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT +1. The time now is 06:57 AM.




Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.2
Copyright ©2000 - 2018, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
ragdoll fighting game physics fighting game ragdoll fighting physics funmotion joints martial arts karate pc mac free game turn based game