So while trying to load the multiplayer menu / servers, I get infinitely loaded. I didn't change anything, I don't have a firewalls or any type of internet restriction that might limit my access. I play on mac OS X version 10.11.4 El Capitan, I recently tried updating my toribasdh via uninstalling it and reinstalling, but that didn't work either, any suggestions?

bro smae thing with me

So a friend of mine Move had the same issue, but there was pretty much no fix for it, he tried it all, he just had to wait it out and it fixed itself, but if you want you can try to install a different version of toribash maybe that might fix it, otherwise just give it a while.

Or try to Defrag your hard drive, run a cleaning program, or try a different pc if you have one.

I had this same issue a while ago.
I had the game from its official site, i deleted the folder, C/GAMES/TORIBASH
after that, i cleaned some unwanted stuff from my PC and got the game from steam (its free) Now it works well.