Yeah, ok. I was in the Aikido semi-pro server, I would kick with one leg and grab with the opposite hand. I'd get a fair amount of lift and I'd try to use that to my advantage. Is there really anything wrong with that, or is that just someone getting agro because I was beating them?
First turn: Hold all -> Lower both shoulders and contract both pecs -> Space
Second turn: Raise both shoulders extend both hips -> Space.
Third and Fourth just make your opponent to land out of the dojo.
And all variations of that... So you just lift him off and 'shovel' him out.