Here are some questions I wish I knew.

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The actual height of a Tori.

Customisation details can be found here. http://forum.toribash.com/showthread.php?t=446814

Keep in mind though that sir is inactive and will be for a while due to irl stuff so we're not sure how that system will work going forward just yet.

The actual hight of a tori is almost impossible to calculate, as the only reference is uke, which is exactly the same size as tori, so yeah.

And solax answered the other question.

It's possible I'm getting this mixed up with minecraft, but roughly 2 meters

Well Tori is 2.85 units tall, so if you think Toribash uses the metric unit then it's 2.85m tall. Which is quite tall.

Typing /am 1 will give you 2.59 units of height when you pause the game on the first frame (meaning of you have 500 frames to start out, you will pause at 500).

So the height of tori is 2.59 units tall. (Assume the unit of measurement is in meters)