I cannot seem to understand anything about the forums, what if u want to go to a specific forum or perhaps pm Ryan? How?

You go to specific board from the main page http://forum.toribash.com/index.php

You can PM any user by finding his profile, going to contact tab and there should be 'send pm' option. You can do it via url-hacking, typing the nick at the end takes you to that person's profile. http://forum.toribash.com/member.php?username=

Also on the main page if you scroll to bottom, slightly above the list of online users, there's a "view toribash staff" link. Ryan is an admin, so you can go into that list and it has "send PM" on the right.