Personally, what you have to improve is: More styles of mods. Not trying to be rude, but I look at the best mods in a certain way. Judo is looked at as a luck mod, and twinsword is basically a fun mod. There will never be wars in judo/twinsword, only aikidobigdojo or boxmushu and sometimes rk-mma.
If you can pratice on those 3 mods I listed and get your win ratio on your ID up to 55% then you can get in, unless you can show me that you can bring something major into rome besides skill and forum activity. If you would like, I can throw you on ally to see how you do toward other members, but as of right now, that's all I can do for you man, sorry. Who knows, you may get liked by Rome members and become a part of the family and get accepted in.