Okay so heres what happens, ill open up tb and play for a bit then after a while ill be in the middle of a match or maybe watching one and both tori and uke disapear along with the points and queue, only thing left is the chat bar, then it turns back to normal for a few seconds then eventually i crash.

Any answers? i have steam version of tb 4.92

Did you check FAQ threads first? There might be a solution in one of them.

If nothing from them works, post your:
- system specs (graphics card, ram, processor etc)
- contents of your stderr.txt (steam/steamapps/common/toribash)
- contents of your crash.txt (same directory)

Have you checked this thread for an answer?

http://forum.toribash.com/showthread.php?t=497304

i looked at that and though its similar to my problem they arent exactly the same

If you've tried everything on that page its possible it won't be fixed until there is an update

k ill go cry in a corner somewhere