The thing is there are so many shitty ideas and people just whine about how they should be optional. Nobody wants to open the game rules menu and sort through so many shitty ideas no one uses just to check one box that is actually useful.
You said that it would be fun to defend against a choke hold, but Toribash's grab is impossible to break. Choke holds would create a new "technique" that guarantees a win every time. It's really not that hard to grab someone's head, so choke holds would completely ruin the game.
Not supported. Make a script, bro.