I just bought my head texture item in torishop and uploaded the texture but i dont see it in my desactivated items, it dont work in game either.
so i cant find how to or where to enable it pls help.

Did you buy the texture item? also, this doesn't belong here. Moving.

Yes! and uploaded it. it said upload was succesful. was in .tga extension.

I can see that you have a head texture in your activated inventory but the image wont appear as you allready know. You could try to re-upload the image onto your head texture again or if that does not work then try to open the image with an application on your computer so that you know you can actually see it. If you can see it try another extension that is supported by Toribash.

post here again if that still does not work.

upload it in PNG

Or you can delete your custom folder and /dowload yourself. That usually fixes all ingame texture/item problems.