I'm in my own server on default mod.
It says dq timeout 0.
I've tried /set dq 0. Still counts down.
How do I get it to not count down so me and a buddy can just screw around?

'ctrl + g' to get into the game rules menu, set dq timeout to 0, and uncheck the DQ box.

dq timeout is at 0. and dq is unchecked. still counting down forcing us to start our turns.

I suggest typing /set reactiontime 1000
That gives you 1000 seconds (~17 minutes) which should me a steady time to get what you need to done.

It still starts the countdown

Sorry for the late response, but it is meant to. This way the countdown will last 1000 seconds, or around 17 minutes, there isn't actually a command to stop the countdown.

Try using /set dq 0 and /reset three times before beginning the replay