Nice stuff Pouffy. By the way, you can make it so that any dm causes auto-loss, without glitches caused by parts colliding that shouldn't collide. All you have to do is put all body parts into one group and make them collide with that same group. So for example on tori's parts you could put:

trig_id 1
trig_mask 1
trig_action 2

and on uke:

trig_id 2
trig_mask 2
trig_action 1

You can look at blood_altar_wip1.tbm for example.