I have a mod I created just now called toriball.tdm. I uploaded it to the forum. But where do I find it on the list in the actual game. I want to play on multiplayer with my new mode! Thanks!

if you have placed it on your mod folder, it will appear on the list. you can also type /set mod toriball.tbm to load it. if you don't have it on the folder and you type the /set command in multiplayer, it will download.

In some cases simply using /set mod <mod.tbm> or /lm <mod.tbm> will not work

if this is the case go here for the mod you uploaded, download it and move the mod file to the location:

(Steam version): Local Disk > program files (x86) > steam > steamapps > common > toribash > data > mods

(standalone) Local Disk > Games > Toribash > data > mods