Originally Posted by
Reta
How does even stay with someone thats bad for you for 5 years
Love, and what you believe is love can do those things. I just recently got out of an emotional abuse type of relationship of 3 years. I wasn't the only victim - she was as well. We did it to each other. Yet, she claims I used horrible mind games and made her think everything was her fault. She's basically been convinced by her therapist that she was being abused for 3 years and I am to blame. I find it depressing that she believes it, but oh well.
When you're so attached to someone, and you realize that they're not who you thought and continuously harm you emotionally or physically, it's hard to leave.
Originally Posted by
Mongius
I just dumped the bitch who killed me internally for 5 years.
Never felt more free than now, this is better than heroin.
Good to hear you got out of the toxicity. But you may feel free now, you've got a long road ahead. I thought the same thing when mine ended, but it took a harder tole on me than I thought would. I didn't eat correctly for about 2 months. Only once a day, sometimes none at all. Lost over 20 lbs actually. There was many feelings, with that break up and other events happening in my life. That was back in November. I still don't eat correctly, but not like that.
Last edited by WeooWeoo; Mar 22, 2017 at 09:39 AM.