Hey, me and my friend just started Toribash today and we want to battle each other without any pros interrupting us. When I click on Create Room in Multiplayer he cant see my Room, it's not on his server List.

Write "/jo room_name" in toribash.
Your friend must write this too.

Sorry for my bad English :/

Tell your Friends to type "/jo (room name)", and also any "pros" Can Join any room on the Server list. If you want a Private room just set the pass by typing "/passwd (Password)". And If your friends want to join just tell him the pass and ask him to type "/pass (The Password)".
For All Chat and Server Commands, here is the link http://forum.toribash.com/showthread.php?t=142452

eu tambem queria sabr !

just click the "creat" on the right bottom