Don't worry luigy, realism takes time and practice. Something that could really help you is just thinking of what you'd do in an actual fight. Most of your hits would be thrown when your on your feet. You'd never want to lose your balance or else your opponent would have many wide open shots on you, so you'd do anything to keep on your feet. That's the feeling you need to bring into sparring. A little unrealistic movement couldn't hurt in a spar, but not too much. Honestly, being realistic could lead to much more flow and many more hits. Luigy, keep sparring, and I'd suggest finding skilled sparrers because you could learn a thing or two while sparring them. And don't be shy to ask for tips while sparring them either. This goes to all of you students who want to be more realistic. Keep on your feet most of the spar and watch yourself when you throw sloppy hits. You're crave for more points may lead to your worst spar. Most importantly, always tell your opponent what you'll do next. If you don't, you'll lose teamwork and that spar might not go out so well. Take these notes into consideration when you spar. Good luck guys, I hope to see improvement from you all. ^_^