Your Existing Situation
Desperately needs a close relationship with an affectionate and accepting partner; or some other way to be recognized and known.
Your Stress Sources
"Demands to be noticed by others as an important individual, needs attention and recognition. His current situation is leaving him dissatisfied. He feels he needs to make friends with those who hold the same high standards he does. Wants to stand out as someone at the top of his class and be admired by others. He needs to feel in control which makes it difficult to give of himself to another person. He feels isolated and alone but refuses to appear weak and continues to be emotionally distant from others in order to keep his attitude of superiority. "
Your Restrained Characteristics
Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity.
Giving more than he is getting back and feels misunderstood and unappreciated. Feels he is being forced into compromising and even his close relationships leave him feeling emotional distant.
"Seeking to broaden his horizons and believes his hopes and dreams are realistic. Worries he may not be able to do the things he wants and needs to escape to a peaceful, quiet environment in order to restore his confidence."
Your Desired Objective
"His current situation is viewed as unpleasant and demanding to much out of him. He is stubborn and close-minding, feeling his way is the only correct way."
Your Actual Problem
"Fear of being prevented from achieving the things he wants causes him to take advantage of all types of other experiences, but then denies any of them have value to him. His destructive behavior is his way of escaping and hiding the helplessness he feels."
Your Actual Problem #2
"Struggles with his need for respect and admiration from others; feels he needs to make a name for himself and stand out from the crowd. He acts out by insisting he be the center of attention, and refuses to step back, stand down, or take on a minor, insignificant role."
Umm, This seems really realistic. Like, almost completely right, apart from the top of the class thing, I don't do shit in school.
I even did this today, I was at a dance thing last night for Easter and I wasn't able to hang out with this girl that I liked. I was feeling really down and even though I stayed at a friends place, I pretty much went home straight away, thinking that I could restore my confidence. I've also been feeling like my friends have been ignoring me, and I need to gain their respect all over or something.
Last edited by Puffbunny; Apr 24, 2011 at 02:10 AM.