While I agree it was irresponsible my gf at the time was wholly against abortion, on top of that my parents are incredibly Christian so they were against it too. In other words it was either ask for an abortion and lose my gf, my family, and still get slapped with childsupport while not even having a place to stay OR just accept the fact that I made a mistake and needed to own up to it by at least trying to be a father.
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also yes they almost disowned me for sex before marriage and giving birth to bastards.