Never said that either... but if you don't think we're valid in our identities then it's transphobia by definition.

I didn't decide a thing and I'd appreciate if you'd leave the thread if you're just here to lazily troll.

You're a transphobe, fuck off

"think we're making this shit up" aka not believing people on merit
"is transphobic" is transphobic

that is exactly what you said. unless I'm misunderstanding the first part of that sentence?

it's a serious question, since you are being so open

i want to know the process that led you to this

I'm also curious. Can you remember a specific moment where a switch flipped or was it more gradual?

Hmmm well shortly after I discovered my true sexuality (I thought I was straight-ish until the age of 21, when I finally let myself indulge in my attraction to masculine people) I realized that appearing feminine gave me a lot of satisfaction. This satisfaction was not sexual, just... comfortable in a way. I began to try out slightly more feminine mannerisms and presentation and it all felt very natural. I guess I just stopped myself from trying to fit in with the college bros around me and acted very genuinely. I found that I cared so little about the way I dressed and the way I looked when going out each day because masculine presentation just wasn't my thing. Women's fashion was so much more interesting and it made me want to construct outfits and highlight the parts of my body I thought were nice. Growing out my hair was an exciting prospect I had never considered because my parents always expected me to keep my hair short. I started talking to a trans girl at my college about it all and she helped me explore gender a little bit. She taught me about HRT (hormone replacement therapy) and it sounded amazing to me. I loved the thought of having a much more feminine body. Then I thought... "well guys typically don't want to have cis girl-ish bodies... maybe I'm not a guy." I thought I was a trans girl at first because well... that's all I knew of. But after some deep thinking about what I was at my core, I just couldn't find a gender which I felt inherently fit me. I am just a person who likes looking more feminine, who is a vers bottom, who is a switch, who is way too into super smash bros melee, who loves learning and engineering and algorithm design, who gets far too political far too often. If I were to "pick" a gender, I'd just be trying to stereotype myself in a way. So... agender (without gender) it is.

would you rather have sex with men or women?

just came by to say that i hate gays but i gained a bit of respect for traps i guess, thanks for writing this whatever you are!

I don't associate "man" or "woman" with any particular physical features or sexual roles. I like more masculine bodies a little bit more than feminine bodies in general, but I'm attracted to masculine, feminine, and androgynous bodies. I enjoy submission and domination equally. I enjoy being penetrated more than I like penetrating others, but both are good.

You're a homophobe and a transphobe, fuck off

Masculine:

How do you associate the word "masculine"?

I associate the word masculine, in this context, with bodies more typical of cis men, meaning a little more muscle, less boob and more pec, broader shoulders, that kind of thing.