I really loled about that...

yeah sometimes ellbows are frustrating... i hate it when I want to "pull" them to dm and my pecs or wrists break T_T

Elbows are usually pretty easy to dismember, as long as you hit from the right direction. If you hit it "with" the axis, it's pretty much impossible to dismember without a RAGEPOWAR attack, but if you hit it on top, below or behind, it will snap pretty easily. A relaxed elbow is, of course, harder to bork than a held elbow, but the same things apply: don't hit with the axis, hit against it.

Hit it below the bicep, not above the triceps if possible. Not sure if it's easier but it works for me.