At the moment the current form of multiplayer is very slow paced. If you loose you will have to wait another 10 minutes to again get owned again. I request that there should be another for of multiplayer where there are many battles going on at the same time and being able to request a fight with a specific person in the server. This would improve the pace of the game substantially and would make the game more attractive to new players due to all of the beginner servers clogged with all of the newer players.

I think the devs are working on a working matchmaking system. You could also just ask the person in chat. :/