I agree, there should be a confirmation with the player you're going against even if said player isn't in the match yet and thus not starting anything.

This really could be great with the confirmation, of your opponent. But you can just Skype... Actually lots of people don't have Skype, And this is a fairly easy mechanic to add to toribash, the coding would be amateur level, so creates your have some basic coding to do, and this could change the way of sparing,well... this was pointless for me to talk but I typed all this up so I'm keeping this

Currently the way round it is to make a gif with your ghost, I use gyazo, but it can be a pain sometimes, this command would have stuff easier

since everyone in this game wants to spar then it'd be a good option to have in the gamerules.

oh i really like this it would be great for spars and parkours and tricking and it would make all of those so much easier to do with another person so maybe the command would be this (/realtimeghostsall agree) so then to join in it would be similar to /en where you would need to type that to be able to join in

i definitely 100% support this idea and it would be a great addition

i think adding this in gamerules isnt good idea, it'd be better to make this with confirmation from both players, like alot of peoples said