xspar is normal spar...xspar just has a better gravity setting.
I don't think toribash is based on blood...but blood is there and you do get the option to turn it off.
Please read care fully too because I'm not saying I play xspar or my opponents play it and grab 24/7. I'm just saying if you are playing spar mods which allow you grab. For moments when you accidently switch to grab and it's obvious, there should be a feature to hide grabs. Just like you can hide blood, bruises, trails etc... This would benifit replay makers as well as video makers who have to deal with that.
Omega, you aren't exactly clear on that. What does that do?