honestly
i furiously jack off to asian women every chance i get
specifically koreans and asians man
althought them thai girls fine as FUCK too
indonesian aswell
most asian countries got hot ass girls
nay, all asian girls.
all asian girls fine as fuck
dont cap
collection
[...] you can't exactly get mad at a guy because he said, for example, he isn't attracted to Indian women. Even if he didn't openly say that, he would STILL not be attracted to Indian women.
The logic that concludes this guy hates Indian people would be the same logic that states a guy who wants a healthy gf hates obese people.
And on the other side of the coin, if you happen to find one race really attractive, then why not express that openly? I'm not seeing any malice or hurtful comments towards Asian people in Melon's post, even if it is a bit exaggerated for comedic effect. If someone said that about my race, it would either make me laugh or give me a confidence boost.
I find it far more problematic to be a person who puts others down for having harmless sexual preferences.
this doesn't really change anything. i don't think you can ban an entire race from your dating/sex life without having prejudices. your dick will still work. to ban an entire race just seems bad to me.
...people are taught that there is a specific ideal of beauty (which rn includes light colored skin), which informs their taste as they grow into adults. the problem isnt so much that people have preferences, but that peoples' preferences are curated by media conglomerates, advertising agencies, and so on. institutional racism is tied in with this because for quite some time black people were explicitly seen to be less desirable than white people in western culture, and the effects of this are still seen in media (less representation etc). and a material effect of this is that people of color tend to have a much harder time finding someone to accept them as they are. I'd wager that if cultural standards of beauty for women in the western world were overhauled, people would grow to not have these preferences so much in the first place.
of course, i don't like to jump into identity politics and argue any sort of reformist perspective of the media industry (i think it should be replaced entirely with something else), but this is generally what I believe to be the argument for the legitimacy of sexual racism's existence...
...i never said anything was a "hate crime" nor should it be. my point is that a lot of things we take for granted as "human nature" are just societal dogma. "human nature" has been used to describe all sorts of things we have since abolished or debunked. incidentally this includes things like slavery, segregation, phrenology, social darwinism, evolutionary psychology, and so on.
what i'm not arguing is that it's somehow problematic to not be attracted to all humans equally, nor even am i arguing that we should shame people for their preferences even if they are influenced by systematic racism. i'm just saying that we ought to examine and reconsider how we view beauty as a society in the first place....
Okay, maybe I should refine my point-
If you find a whole race of people unattractive because they are that race, and you find them repulsive, then that's obviously problematic. If you generally aren't attracted to that race because you find the commonly shared features throughout its people unattractive, then that's fine in my eyes. Would you rather people danced around that by being like uhhh yeah I'm not attracted to people with dark skin, etc etc. Like no bro just say you aren't really attracted to black people. Who cares who they wan fuc
For what it's worth I think there are mostly exceptions to these preferences. Just like a girl who 'only dates tall guys' might one day find an absolute 5'4 CHAD and become infatuated.
Also the weight analogy was poor and I will take that on the chin
this doesn't really change anything. i don't think you can ban an entire race from your dating/sex life without having prejudices. your dick will still work. to ban an entire race just seems bad to me.