1. Forum, IRC, or ingame activeness.
2. Maturity.
3. Gentlemanship.
If you want to join us, make a free form app (4+ sentences) and wait for a reply. You have to have the approval of at least 3 Members or 1 Leader. (We don't really care if you're good at toribash or not. We care about who you are. Yes, grammar will dramatically affect your chances of getting in.)
Otium is Latin for leisure and tranquility.
Join us on IRC #otium.
1. Getting banned = a strike. 3 strikes and you're out. (Permabans are instant kick.)
2. Try to seem like you have an IQ over 100.