On my Toribash main menu (esc) I can't click on ANYTHING i've un-installed it and re-installed it and it still wont work!!!

Try updating your graphics drivers. Tell me the results.

i...don't...know...what...that...is...exactly

http://forum.toribash.com/showthread.php?t=214180

Follow the instructions there to update your graphics drivers.

i figured out the problem,i have to move my mouse farther down to click on stuff -_-

Fro mthat I can deduce that you're running the game at full screen, but the resolution is set lower than your screen's native.

Unless you've got an ATI/AMD or Nvidia GPU you need to set the game to run at the same resolution as your desktop to get buttons on the menu to work right.